As the holiday season approaches—whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or another celebration—I find myself reflecting on the passage of time in a way that only this time of year can inspire. The crisp air, the twinkling lights, the familiar songs—all of it naturally prompts introspection. It’s a season that encourages me to take stock of where I’ve been, where I am now, and where I’m headed. And if I’m being honest, there’s been a lot of change. Watching my children grow up, welcoming grandchildren into the world, adjusting to shifting roles within our family, and feeling the bittersweet ache of missing loved ones who are no longer with us—these moments remind me that change is both inevitable and, at times, uncomfortable, but always present.
While I’ve learned to welcome change, partly because I consider myself adaptable, it hasn’t always come easily. There have been times when change felt more like a challenge than an opportunity. Letting go of the familiar, stepping into new roles, and embracing the unknown has often been uncomfortable, even unsettling. Whether it’s adjusting to the shifting dynamics within our family—transitioning from single parenthood and homeownership to marriage and a blended family—or watching my children step into parenthood themselves, the process of change has seldom been smooth or effortless.
But what I’ve learned over time is that change isn’t just about adapting to new circumstances; it’s also about discovering new parts of myself along the way. It’s about the growth that comes from stepping outside my comfort zone and learning to find balance in the midst of transition. Change creates space for new experiences, new joys, and new perspectives—and as challenging as it can be, it’s also a reminder that there is always something to be gained, even in the discomfort.
What changes have you faced in your life? How have you navigated and adapted to those changes? What challenges did you encounter along the way, and what successes have you experienced in the process?
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