Lately, I’ve come across several studies that highlight a noticeable shift in generational priorities, particularly when it comes to relationships and marriage. More and more, young people seem to prioritize their careers, personal growth, and financial independence over getting married.
In contrast, I've also had the chance to connect with individuals from older generations who married young, often right after high school. Many of them are still happily married today (or at least still together), which is a reminder that enduring love and commitment are still very much alive. These examples make me reflect on how different paths to partnership can lead to lasting, meaningful connections—no matter the timing.
In the end, whether people marry young or later in life, each generation seems to approach marriage in its own unique way. While the timing, expectations, and challenges may vary, the underlying desire for deep, lasting relationships remains constant.
This year, Reg and I are celebrating a major milestone: our 10-year anniversary. Looking back to those early days—when we were still figuring out what it truly meant to be partners in every sense—I’m amazed at how far we’ve come. Reflecting on where we are today, we’re more comfortable, more resilient, and more secure in our commitment to each other. The journey hasn’t always been easy, and that’s exactly what makes this milestone so meaningful. It’s been a journey of growth, effort, and collaboration, as we’ve worked together to nurture a loving, balanced relationship through life’s challenges and changes—requiring patience, commitment, and a shared willingness to grow together.
But I’m curious: for those of you who’ve been married for 10+ years, what has helped keep your relationship thriving? What are your "secrets" to a lasting marriage? I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences!
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